We spent about $150 on decor, this is a generous estimation as much of our decor was free books from family and my boss:
Dress was $92 w/shipping and Suit was just under $200 Undergarments $15 and Shoes $10
Hair was $35 (and paid for by a friend as a wedding gift) and nails were on sale Sally Hensen stickers for $5. (better photo of nails later)
The venue was free but we donated an air conditioning unit that we've had for several years and that they needed.
The cake and cupcakes were $150:
Food was just under $300:
Photographer $100 (still waiting on those photos should have them tomorrow).
Marriage License: $35
And that sums it up!
Total with anything left out was $1077
Advice?
Let your friends and family help where their strong points are. But be willing to return the favor. If you can make it yourself for cheaper than buying it, do it. Not only will you save money, but it makes the wedding more meaningful. Invite only the people who are truly a part of your life. If it isn't important to you, don't blow money on it. Be willing to tweak your vision if you need to in order to afford your day. It's about marrying the man you love, not impressing everyone you've ever met.
And that's just tips from me. This is your wedding do it your way!
